Father kills son over video game dispute

**Kraker Jak** · 10-26-09, 05:42 PM

Originally Posted by flame

You guys really are too uptight. I cant tell you the number of times I have walked away from a death and laughed. "Bet he wont do that again." or "So thats what a hole in your head feels like." Not that I dont respect the dead but when you see it on a regular basis it isnt a big deal. It's a form of stress relief, keeping those emotions all balled up inside will get to you and fuck you up. So for those of us who see it all the time we end up with a morbid sense of humor. You think what kraker said was bad? You should hear my wife, she sees alot of trauma and death, make a joke laugh and move on to the next one you can actually save.
Am I respectful infront of the person, yes by all means. But back at home or the station let it out, same thing here, he wasnt talking to the family. Worse jokes were made on public broadcasts about MJ when he died. People die its part of life, one day my time will come, laugh it up, I wont be here to care.

This, my friends, is called C.I.S.D Critical Incident Stress Debriefing...which they ENCOURAGE you to deal with the trauma we (firefighters, medics, EMT's, DOctors, Police) deal with everyday. Look it up, you all might learn something.

**~~Cyanide~~** · 10-26-09, 05:44 PM

Originally Posted by flame

You guys really are too uptight. I cant tell you the number of times I have walked away from a death and laughed. "Bet he wont do that again." or "So thats what a hole in your head feels like." Not that I dont respect the dead but when you see it on a regular basis it isnt a big deal. It's a form of stress relief, keeping those emotions all balled up inside will get to you and fuck you up. So for those of us who see it all the time we end up with a morbid sense of humor. You think what kraker said was bad? You should hear my wife, she sees alot of trauma and death, make a joke laugh and move on to the next one you can actually save.
Am I respectful infront of the person, yes by all means. But back at home or the station let it out, same thing here, he wasnt talking to the family. Worse jokes were made on public broadcasts about MJ when he died. People die its part of life, one day my time will come, laugh it up, I wont be here to care.

Yeah... I say this is the win. I understand that it was a "joke", but sometimes, some jokes are just not good for the situation. Some people are the type that will joke and move on (Kraker), and their are types that just feel that it was messed up and unneeded (syrringe and myself).

I see where everyone is coming from. It was not ok to say, but it was a little mood builder (even though it led to this xD)

How bout we all take these conversations to the PMs. This isn't the place. This thread is about the drastic loss of a young man. RIP.

Not for:

Originally Posted by Syrringe

Originally Posted by Kraker Jak

Just drop it tool...

says the guy who freaks out like a girl when he sees a $200 pair of jeans he wants.

...and then actually fucking buys them.

**~~Syrringe~~** · 10-26-09, 05:46 PM

Originally Posted by Kraker Jak

This, my friends, is called C.I.S.D Critical Incident Stress Debriefing...which they ENCOURAGE you to deal with the trauma we (firefighters, medics, EMT's, DOctors, Police) deal with everyday. Look it up, you all might learn something.

So you expect a community full of gamers, from all different walks of life, to know wtf you are talking about? to understand that? No one is obligated to look up jack shit. Especially if it's coming from you. If someone gets offended by a remark you make, don't try to validate it by A) being more of a prick, and B) throwing up some EMT/Fireman jargon that you expect everyone to follow.

Laughable.

**~~Cripple~~** · 10-26-09, 05:47 PM

Just wasted 15 min of my life reading this.
just lock this thread and move on.
Yes, its sad a kid didn't get to live out his life because his father was distraught.
The truth is s*** like this happens yes nobody likes it but it dies happen and it is something we all have to face.

Me saying this the 15 year old to the adults of this community?
Honestly STFU idc if your an admin a reg a new player STFU and lock this thread it got way out of hand and needs to be stopped before regret something.

Some adults still think there kids but they aren't and have to pay for what is said. Lets drop this all and just lock the thread and move on. Hate who you want idc but lock this thread and argue privately.