Thread: ok for some but not all?

Originally Posted by GReYVee

A break was a good thing. You know BT -- maybe we should talk sometime. I think many people would like a good conversation with you. You; A well respected hard-ass, that if anything, has been worn down himself (i mean c'mon you've been playing/admin many games here). It's not TPG, or it's admins, or it's policies. Nor do I even think it is you. You seem worn the fuck out. Every time you bail I understand why. Step back from gaming and have some time to socialize with people better! You try to cut yourself out of this whole thing, and come right back. Issues not resolved. It is time to get out of these forums but try and have a good time with some friends. Even the ones you have here.

I am serious. This crap is killing you emotionally.

I love all yall to death. I get a little carried away from time to time. I did and always will do what I think is best for TPG. I may take things too much to heart. I am closer to most of yall than my RL friends. I spend more time with you guys. Something left a bad taste in my mouth. I removed myself from it but I can't remove the respect that I have for all of you, including Vafa. I think a lot of him. I'm sure this doesn't help our relationship but I still consider him as a friend in RL and through TPG.

I agree Civil, I have a lot of respect for you as well. I learned how you work unban request's and took notes. I will hit you up to chat sometime.

Hub can have all my hugs.

Xis, your right times are tuff. Overall frustration is up there.

Thank You all for the insight and help.

Locked.

This shouldnt have gone 5 damn pages IMO.

Anytime there is a misunderstanding, staying calm is key and not let things get under your skin. Always take in everyone's perspective, because several eyes and opinions are way better than one. Most importantly though, if you just get frustrated and quit and take your ball and go home, then you will never understand or see the outcome. In those cases, you slide over to the side of the problems, instead of the problem solvers. Let things settle down. I think you see that you handled the aftermath, way wrong, and nobody will support those kinds of actions, in the heat of your moments.