Thread: Models for TTP gear

If you love her, go for it m8. Just say it straight out. She clearly feels the same way.

If she says yes... it's done. If she says no, never mention it again and move on.

You do need to get it out in the open. Talk about it properly, and fully. You both need to be on the same page here. If she genuinely doesn't want to have a relationship, you can't force one upon her. I was in the same situation, and it was horrible. I knew she liked me as well, but I also knew that she wouldn't go into a relationship with anyone. I couldn't impose it on her, so I had to move on. If it does turn out that way, you cannot let yourself dwell on it, because that would only ruin your friendship, and I know you don't wan't to do that. If it works out, then that's fantastic, but be prepared; you can't change someones mind like that.

Lol thanks for the input. Like I said I already knew what I was gonna do but thought it'd be cool to see who thought what.

I agree, telling my best mate how I felt was the logical step.

So I did. Conclusion was she told me to be happy with someone else but that we'd still have each other...

If anything we're closer again.. hmmm...

But no relationship.. which surprisingly doesn't hurt.

She's started refering to me as her brother now.. and in some ways we're closer than a boyfriend/girlsfriend relationship.. which is.. fucking awesome


In regards to one of the earlier posts, I never went after her for sex... naturally that would have likely happened, but it wasn't even a reason that had crossed my mind, though she is beautiful she doesn't see it.

Bottom line is she's got some issues and we're gonna sort them out. Perhaps one day we could be a couple but now it's forgotten and I'll move on

^that's not what you want to hear.

Actually, in my experience with the similar situation, it get's better as time goes on. If it doesn't hurt now, then that is great, I seriously doubt you will start to spiral after this, I know I didn't. I'm so happy for you that you achieved a level above a relationship. It'll feel better, stress-free, no strings attached. You are very lucky to have this, I'm quite jealous of you :P

Good luck, you did the right think and you can finally move on with your life.

Lol ta guys.

Hmm the situation may change in a year.. but till then we're good as we are.

It wont hurt me, cus I havent lost her, that's ALL that matters