Advice

**DJ Ms. White** · 02-25-12, 06:33 PM

So...got a wake up call from my sister. Brother-in-law said he doesn't love her anymore...probably his job...3 years in intensive care (most switch after a year). I honestly don't know what to do to make her happy. Help please.

Sent from my Kindle Fire using Tapatalk

**HeavyG** · 02-25-12, 09:59 PM

Sadly there isnt much you can do. Sometimes people just stop loving one another. It really sucks and it hurts a lot, but time can heal all wounds. Just be a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen, and a caring brother to be there if she needs anything.

Sent from my SCH-I510 using Tapatalk

**DJ Ms. White** · 02-25-12, 11:22 PM

Ok. Thank you.

Sent from my Kindle Fire using Tapatalk

**Rawr** · 02-25-12, 11:28 PM

Originally Posted by HeavyG

Sadly there isnt much you can do. Sometimes people just stop loving one another. It really sucks and it hurts a lot, but time can heal all wounds. Just be a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen, and a caring brother to be there if she needs anything.

Sent from my SCH-I510 using Tapatalk

Exactly.

**ab1tar** · 02-26-12, 03:10 PM

Originally Posted by HeavyG

Sadly there isnt much you can do. Sometimes people just stop loving one another. It really sucks and it hurts a lot, but time can heal all wounds. Just be a shoulder to cry on, an ear to listen, and a caring brother to be there if she needs anything.

Sent from my SCH-I510 using Tapatalk

This! Also, as the brother you are welcome to beat his ass for hurting your sister...

**DJ Ms. White** · 02-26-12, 04:08 PM

Oh, the thought has crossed my mind, but she still loves him very much.

I also just had to spend time convincing her that it she should eat something since she doesn't feel like eating or moving. This is very frustrating.

**DJ Ms. White** · 03-20-12, 02:30 PM

Yeah, so bad news. Brother-in-law was cheating on my sister for the last year, and they're getting a divorce. White is sad/angry panda.

**Rawr** · 03-20-12, 02:36 PM

Originally Posted by DJ Mr. White

Yeah, so bad news. Brother-in-law was cheating on my sister for the last year, and they're getting a divorce. White is sad/angry panda.

Blegh, it's one thing to admit that the spark is gone. It's another to sleep around on your wife.

Sorry it worked out that way for your sister, just be as supportive as you can for her.