Thread: You fuck shit up.

Soooooo I dont have any problems picking up dumb bimbos in bars or clubs, However everytime i seem to meet someone im Actually interested in, they either A. have a boyfriend, or B. I get to talking with them, then fuck it up someway somehow, whether it be i say the wrong shit that makes me look crazy, or i stop talking to them for a couple days because i think its a GREAT idea to give them space cause i feel thats what they want...WELLLLLLL I think im just gonna do the opposite of w.e the fuck my brain thinks because i seem to fuck everything up everytime i do what it says...FML

/endrant.

Originally Posted by Stealthyking

Soooooo I dont have any problems picking up dumb bimbos in bars or clubs, However everytime i seem to meet someone im Actually interested in, they either A. have a boyfriend, or B. I get to talking with them, then fuck it up someway somehow, whether it be i say the wrong shit that makes me look crazy, or i stop talking to them for a couple days because i think its a GREAT idea to give them space cause i feel thats what they want...WELLLLLLL I think im just gonna do the opposite of w.e the fuck my brain thinks because i seem to fuck everything up everytime i do what it says...FML

/endrant.

well it is jersey

A little bit of what I have gathered from my experiences with woman, dating early on.

1. Never ask interview questions, (where do you work, where you from, school?) - it's boring, kills the attraction.

2. Never brag about yourself to her, makes it look like your trying to impress her, again kills the attraction, she should find out good things about you naturally, when it comes up in conversation.

3. Never ask serious questions or get too serious in your conversation.

4. Playfully tease or make fun of her, makes her feel more comfortable because it let's her know your not taking the interaction to seriously. Don't over do this, she'll think it's funny at first but will start to get annoyed after awhile. That's what I see men do wrong all of the time and it's the reason women blow guys off or are rude. It is because we make them that way, because every time they are nice to a guy, that guy thinks it's going somewhere and wan'ts her to be his GF. Seriously can you imagine how much stress that puts on them? So they rather be rude and not deal with it.

5. If a woman does something shitty to you (stand you up) never let it show how much that has affected you. Sometimes I think woman do this shit on purpose just to see how you're going to react.

Here's an example, I dated this girl for like 3 months, she stood me up on our first date. We agreed to go to the zoo on a Sunday, I called that day to see what time, she never answered. I didn't text her anything regarding why she blew me off. The next night I get a message saying she was sorry that something had come up. My response "We'll that hurt really bad, thanks to you I spent the whole day locked in my room crying...are you going to buy me flowers or what?". She found that hilarious and we continued talking. Had I responded with "well why didn't you at least call me to let me know", it would have in all likelihood ended everything.

6. Never ask her what she wants to do or where she wants to go. She is expecting you, as the man to be the leader and tell her what the plans are. Hell if you don't know where to go on a date, how is she going to know?

7. Put expectations on her, when scheduling a date, tell her to wear something nice.

G2G, but anyways how do you think you fucked it up? You have her number so obviously she was interested at some point, you didn't talk to her about your love for Bieber did you?

No, i did everything right cept a couple things that you mentioned. I know everything you mentioned all too well, but i know where i went wrong. Its a hard situation to explain and would rather not do it here on the forums, Add me on steam.

Will do

[QUOTE=Stealthyking;1709718WELLLLLLL I think im just gonna do the opposite of w.e the fuck my brain thinks because i seem to fuck everything up everytime i do what it says[/QUOTE]

Well it work for George Costanza.

Biebers always fuck shit up, it's what they do.

Originally Posted by Guyver

Biebers always fuck shit up, it's what they do.

Oh please.....I wont even go there. haha

Fuck that shit forget about her, there's plenty of fish in the Sea.

How about you keep looking until you find a girl that accepts you for who you are..

Don't change your behaviors based on false expectations. Maybe you're looking in the wrong places.