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06-25-08, 12:41 AM #81Re: OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG OMG
Well Syrr, I guess you better not come to me for advice because I learned today that I suck as a dad. I have three kids, 10, 7, and 5. My wife had all three naturally, the last at our home. All three slept in our bed for some time, but now are quite independent, and have been for years. All three nursed, and are quite healthy. We also home school all three, and yet they have no social issues to speak of. They have friends through other activities such as our church, home school group activities, sports, art, etc.
I guess it comes back to the kid and the parents. If you have involved parents that try to do their best the kids will hopefully turn out ok. If not, then who knows.
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06-25-08, 12:56 AM #82
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Originally Posted by Cojiro
You have to remember, this notion of sticking the kid in a corner by itself to sleep is a Victorian invention. Do you think primates in the wild do that? Of course not. Even something that is simple to us- regulating breathing- can be a challenge for a newborn.
Disturbingly enough, there has also been a statistically significant linkage shown for SIDS to a certain type of plastic that is in many crib mattresses... An Australian study a few years back, I'll have to dig up.
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06-25-08, 08:31 AM #83
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Parents do their best with the tools they have and generally the trusted opinions of close friends (not that the people here can’t be trusted). Co-sleeping doesn’t always mean being in the same bed. We had our daughter in a bassinette at the side of our bed for the first couple months to make the late night feedings easier…less stumbling thru the hallway and more relaxing.
Also, when she woke up when not hungry, we were able to chill her out quicker being that she was closer.
We never did the same-bed thing intentionally…there have been nights in the last couple years when she’s woken up in the middle of the night with various problems and we resolved it by letting her sleep with us…heck, when we got her her big-girl bed, I slept in there with her a couple nights to show her it was cool…she’s very independent.
Like I said, do your best with the information you have (which is limitless on the internet) and the trusted opinions of family and friends.
Here’s something that should be obvious by now though – for every expert you find that says “Always, always, always do XYZ” you will find at least one equally qualified expert that says “Never, ever, ever do XYZ” – this is a fact of the internet.
Here’s some basic rules.
No beer for the baby –
Read the label of the medicine closely and call your doctor for help with dosage if you have a question –
No steak for infants –
Don’t shake the baby –
Don’t drop the baby –
Hug the baby –
Change your life for the baby –
Do better for your baby than your parents did for you, even if you had it great, your mission is to improve your next generation. Even if you don’t feel it now, when that kid gets here – you won’t be able to control it. The desire to see your baby have it better than you had it takes over.
Good luck, and God bless.
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06-26-08, 10:59 AM #84
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Originally Posted by RottnJP
And then you go on to say that the "best" way to feed your kid is to breast feed. Well why don't you let his wife decide what she wants to do, some women do not like that. I'm sure you'll throw out some facts on how it is the safest way with the most nutrients yada yada.
And since when did I say I leave my baby in the corning crying? Wow, you're really reaching here huh. Having your kid sleep in their crib and getting used to it, there is nothing wrong with that. That is what a wireless baby cam is for, so you can see/hear if your baby is crying, then you can go tend to them. It's pretty simple actually.
The whole point of this thread was to give nice positive advice I'm sure. Not try to come in, flame some else advice and be an all around know-it-all. But nice job, you've accomplished that.
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08-14-08, 09:13 AM #86
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Cojiro,
I think the basic philosophy behind the Co-sleeping is that when a mother and her child are sleeping, the bodies can regulate each other. Basically the infant feels the mother's heartbeat and it's own pretty much matches it.
If an infant is in its crib and its heart stops, there is nothing else there telling it to restart and the infant dies. If an infant is co-sleeping and its heart stops, the mother's beating "reminds" the infant's heart to start beating again. It's similar to asthma kids when parents hold them close to try and regulate their breathing.
I hate referencing movies, but the scene in "Signs" where Mel Gibson holds his son close to regulate his son's breathing is pretty accurate.
Now I'm no doctor, scientist, or researcher, but I do pride myself on attempting to get a basic understanding of a lot of different theories. If anyone has more information, or if im just plain off of it, please by all means correct me with the facts.
As far as this thread goes...stop the fighting you two. This thread is about Syrringe having a kid and asking for advice. If you want to bitch..start a new thread.
Syrringe, Congrats bro, I know im a little late, but never noticed this post until someone posted this morning. I remember helping raise my little brother (I was 10 when he was born) and its definately a trip watching them grow up. It really is crazy watching it.
And btw...my siblings and i had my little brother on a trampoline with us at 6 months...my mom almost killed us.
Anyways I wouldn't suggest doing that. Other than that, just sit back and enjoy the ride, and have fun changing those diapers.
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08-14-08, 06:12 PM #89
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I'm late coming to this thread, but I wanted to extend my congratulations to you both, anyway!
CONGRATS!
As for the advice...ah...don't worry about it. Little tyke isn't even here and people are already telling you that you need to stress about his/her education?
Just take a breather and don't worry about any of that until you need to. All those decisions that need to be made...breast or bottle, home school or public education, co-sleep or cry or it...they'll sort themselves out in time.
You are going to have a baby! YOUR baby! Your time to leave your mark on the world. You and the baby's mother will decide what is best for your child. You'll raise it the best way that you know how. And you'll be great at it. You'll see.
So that's my advice. Stop worry about all the later stuff and just enjoy her being pregnant now. Do what's needed to get the little one here safely and enjoy every moment of that. And when s/he gets here safely...enjoy every minute after that, too. You'll hear it too often, but it really is true...it goes too quickly so savor each moment and just enjoy it all.
Congratulations!!!
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