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Thread: POTENTIAL Dangers of Internet Porn
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08-14-08, 07:24 PM #81
Re: POTENTIAL Dangers of Internet Porn
also - if a sexually inexperienced 18 yr old watches a pile of porn before entering the real world - are you denying it can screw with his perception of actual intimacy? Do you think his view of women and sex in general might be a little twisted depending on the kind of porn he watched?
We're very impressionable beings - things imprint on our minds and never go away...in that respect, I believe porn can cause serious harm.
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08-14-08, 07:39 PM #82
Re: POTENTIAL Dangers of Internet Porn
Originally Posted by SlytherN
The artist formerly known as SlytherN
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08-14-08, 07:40 PM #83
Re: POTENTIAL Dangers of Internet Porn
I've read the first and last page of this and I will only state my view on addictions...
You control what you do and don't do. Period. If you let something control you, then that's a problem that requires attention. But frankly, I don't understand those without enough willpower to control their own lives. I don't gamble because I don't want to throw money away... But I sure do like it. I just simply told myself that the boat (casino) is off limits. And I've never been there. And I'll never go there in the future. I drink very rarely and when I do it's one or two drinks and that's it. I decided long ago that I'm stupid enough as it is and I'm not going to get drunk and reveal any more stupidity than I have to to the rest of the world. I don't smoke. I don't do drugs of any sort and even limit prescription medication to those times when I most assuredly HAVE to have something (I didn't even take painkillers when I broke my leg last october other than some tylenol a few times... even after surgery...) I *do* have a nice stash of porn. And you know what? I'm just as normal as the next guy that doesn't have a porn stash.
I know people that have thrown away their lives on drugs or gambling. And I've even known a guy or two that has thrown away their lives on EVERQUEST and WORLD OF WARCRAFT. It simply amazes me to no end.
If you let external stimuli control your life, that's your own fault and I'm sorry to say it, but you deserve what you get.
Krakkens and shit. stop tempting them. -- Bigdog
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08-14-08, 08:14 PM #84
Re: POTENTIAL Dangers of Internet Porn
What I have to say first of is that I come from a very religious family and have been attending catholic school all of my life. While you may not agree with what I have to say with this topic I believe it should be a sacred act in which a married couple get closer together as well as God. Contraception and masturbation are sins, The holy act of sex should be reserved between a married couple without any use of suppressing the miracle of birth (While you may think that contraception should be allowed for underprivileged families there is natural planning). I also have fell victum to watching porn, and regret not that I have hurt my relationship with God many times doing this act. I do not just feel bad that I let our holy father down, but I also see masturbation and pornography as cheating on our future spouse.
If you really feel sorry for also commiting this act I recommend going to confession
Originally Posted by MrsGumby
Originally Posted by Toker
I believe that sex should be reserved for marriage, as well as pornography is damaging to families. I believe if we lived without both of these their would be less divorce and would save many families pain and suffering.
When making any decisions do not just consider yourself, but consider how it may affect others and how you would feel if you where in their predicaments.
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08-14-08, 09:18 PM #86
Re: POTENTIAL Dangers of Internet Porn
Originally Posted by Spike
As for the religious views expressed here, these are yours and your religions. It's a shame if something as secular as religion stops the universal benefit of science from curing diseases that were placed upon children like Sickle Cell Anemia or Down Syndrome. Certainly, if you believe in God, he did not intend to see young children die and suffer at an early age via abortion or these diseases. Is it possible he is guiding the hands of the doctors and scientists that are looking for these cures?
Go ahead and refuse these treatments for your children if you are unlucky enough to be touched by this and allow those of us that want to, use science to possibly save our families. Your religions view on birth control and abstinence doesn't affect me, your religions choice to suppress science does.
As for the topic of porn, you guys all bring up fantastic views from multiple sides. Not that my opinion matters but I lie somewhere in the middle. I see that if you have signs that it is becoming a problem, seek help immediately, otherwise it is okay to play.
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08-14-08, 09:33 PM #87
Re: POTENTIAL Dangers of Internet Porn
Moderation... in all things. Suppose I had sex with my wife 8-10 times a day everyday. I spent 15 minutes of fore play 15 minutes of sex 30 minutes of recvery time each time 8-10 hours a day. Now I have just consumed half of the waking time of my day with sex. Throw in eating (gotta carbo-load for that workout) and now you have consumed most of your waking day. Now this is all you do with your life... in theory you are doing everything "right." The problem is that sex has still consumed your life, yes it is with your wife but you have replaced everything else with sex. So now something that seems like a normal, right thing to do has become bad. This is a very drastic example but in comparison anything you allow to consume your life is wrong.
Myself I watch porn, not often but I watch it. I smoke hookah, cigars and cigarettes, not often but I still do it. I drink a couple nights a week, normally I dont get drunk but sometimes I do. I have put twenty into a slot machine a couple of times. I could very easily fall prey to any of these things, I have the will power to do these things in balance.
What I think the whole point Consultant is trying to make is... When you realize that something, porn in this instance, is begining to take hold of your life you need to stop right away. There is normally a brief moment when you realize that what you are doing is wrong and damaging to your life. Some people do not realize it and fall victim. Some become addicted to their job, equally damaging to your family. Social clubs, sports, shopping, the internet, video games, eating, and many more things, all of which millions of americans are addicted to. If you dont have a problem with porn, maybe it's something else. Take a self check and evaluate yourself.
Porn is very easy to become addicted to. Porn, if you believe it to be wrong or not, can lead to other things that are wrong. Its not so much that it hurts the woman to know you looked at porn, but the fact that you lied about it, spent time away because of it, and became detatched. Normally it's not the vice itself that is "bad" but the problems afterwards.
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08-14-08, 10:24 PM #90
Re: Dangers of Internet Porn
Originally Posted by Consultant
EDIT:
Answering these posts as I come to them rather than clicking reply and filling the next two pages with replies to each post separately:
Originally Posted by triggerhappy2005
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Originally Posted by triggerhappy2005
And damn you Asianator for beating me to it.
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Originally Posted by Consultant
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Originally Posted by MrsGumby
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Originally Posted by Consultant
I think it's unrealistic to expect that level of absolute dedication and unfailing faith in someone out of a human, but out of a god, or scion of a god? Hmm...
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Originally Posted by Consultant
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Originally Posted by Kanati8869
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Originally Posted by Spike
I see all these kids, in a family that clearly doesn't have the means to support them, and I really wonder if their lives are going to be worth anything by the time they're my age. But it seems the extended family is, for Hispanics (or maybe it's for Catholics, too), more involved, so maybe they're covering their bases in that regard.
I'm a loyal soldier of Troy because I personally don't feel as though I'm mature or financially secure enough to be able to raise a kid the way I feel they should be raised. When or if I reach the point where I think I'm in a position capable of doing it right, maybe then I'll start making babies. But not before.
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Originally Posted by Consultant
What about the last time you heard about some idiot frat boy die of alcohol poisoning? Drug-related violence?
It works both ways. But I think the worst thing you'd get into the ER for with porn is abrasions (ouch.)
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