a person loves you one day and then doesnt the next

**)-(3llF1R3** · 02-17-09, 09:42 PM

you guys all know how she wanted to take a break

well she went out and broke up with me, saying that she wasnt planning on falling in love with someone else and that ugh w/e

well tonight she said that she didnt love me anymore

so ill prob go to a college right down the street and just do w/e instead of goin off and shit

i dont know.
i wanted to wait for her, she was pretty fuckin great in bed but now i guess i can fuck more bitches but yeah

but you know when a girl does this, and it makes no sense cause we had plans and dreams and i guess she felt like she didnt want that anymore, prob cause she found another guy or something, she wont give me an explanation or anything. so fuck her i hope shes horrible. but you know i dont. i love her and i hope she becomes a wildlife biologist and studies wolves or w/e shes going to school for.

im a lil down and you guys should make me feel better or worse idc, i just need some ppl to talk about it

**Potemkine** · 02-17-09, 09:49 PM

Sounds like its for the best if she is treating you this way. Not what you want to hear but sometimes friends tell you the ugly truth because they care about you and want you to move on. Keep your chin up man.

**eXpress** · 02-17-09, 09:54 PM

Sorry man...idk what exactly to tell you other than that...ppl deal with things like this differently. I know that ur hurting right now but it's good to see that you genuinely dont have any harsh feelings towards her...and the reason why she didnt give an answer is probably bc its too hard for her to bs an answer. I think she still loves you but in a diff way, that's hard to explain but this situatiuon is similar to something i went through earlier this year except i was the one going to college...you'll be ok in time man

**Cleric** · 02-17-09, 10:00 PM

Sorry to hear that hellfire...i had pretty much the same thing happen to me just before this past christmas. Just take it as a lesson learned and now you know that that is the type of woman to avoid in the future. Keep your chin up bud and dont look for someone! Before you know it, another great thing will come your way...i guarantee it!

**DancingCorpse** · 02-17-09, 11:45 PM

Take it from me, distracting yourself from the thoughts is the best way to do it, if that means taking pictures so much that you have to when you take a piss, do it. The more you make it so you can't think of her, the easier it becomes to forget them and stop thinking about it.

Listening to your favorite music and to some sad songs and what not really helps too, it really does.

Here's hoping your wounded heart heals soon.

**-Sauso-** · 02-17-09, 11:50 PM

" so fuck her i hope shes horrible. "

lol don't worry you will get over her....

she flat out said she doesn't love you..

i don't know you, but i am guessing you are younger....under 20 ish?

always need to upgrade my friend....time to upgrade !

**Guyver** · 02-18-09, 12:47 AM

What's even worse is wondering if the girl you were with even really loved you in the first place.

(Yes, I'm going through that situation.)

**laggyNgroovy** · 02-18-09, 12:58 AM

Originally Posted by )-(3llF1R3

so ill prob go to a college right down the street and just do w/e instead of goin off and shit

If I'm reading that right..... go off to college somewhere else, even for just a little bit. There's a great big world out there. The older you get, you start running out of opportunities to see it.

**bust331** · 02-18-09, 01:03 AM

Last GF I had, keep in mind we were only 16, said I love you only a month into the relationship.

Those three words get tossed around so much nowadays they have no meaning anymore. Needless to say, I ended it pretty quick after that.